Indeed, as for me, I would be more delighted to believe that we
can change our own destiny, if there is one thing that we know the
Almighty do gave us freewill.
This definitely means that we can alter the aspects of our life
including our own relationship.
And true, sometimes, the 10% of fate do seem to play a bigger role
in relationships.
Is there something else that we miss out that could be compounding
the factors of our failed relationships?
It's quite hard and might as well be said, truely depressing to
hear someone saying that if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to
be...
Kind of taking out our ability in controlling our own life, and
makes it hard the next time to go on, hence making our matchmaking
life into statistics and percentages if you know what I mean. It's
just like prior to starting a relationship, there is this
calculation of risk on whether it will last or not.
Kinda sux isn't it?